Family life is in
'meltdown':
Judge launches
devastating attack on our fractured society
By STEVE DOUGHTY
Daily Mail
4th April 2008
Mr Justice Coleridge
Family breakdown is a "cancer" behind almost every evil affecting the
country, a senior judge will declare today.
Mr Justice Coleridge blames youth crime, child abuse, drug addiction and
binge-drinking on the "meltdown" of relations between parents and children.
He warns that the collapse of the family unit is a threat to the nation as bad
as terrorism, crime, drugs or global warming.
The speech to family lawyers contains a fierce attack on the "neglect" of
successive governments.
The 58-year-old judge, who is married with three grown-up children, will say
family breakdown is an epidemic affecting all levels of society from the Royal
Family down.
It is "on a scale, depth and breadth which few of us could have imagined even
"a decade ago. It is a never-ending carnival of human misery. A ceaseless
river of human distress.
"I am not saying every broken family produces dysfunctional children but I am
saying that almost every dysfunctional child is the product of a broken
family."
The judge, who is in charge of family courts across South-West England, will
say he has a duty to speak out.
He will call on the Government to put the family at the top of its agenda,
alongside the economy and the war on terror - and make it "rather more
important than taking oaths of allegianc".
His speech will say: "Families are the cells which make up the body of
society. If the cells are unhealthy and undernourished, or at worse cancerous
and growing haphazard and out of control, in the end the body succumbs.
"In some of the more heavily populated urban areas, family life is quite
frankly in meltdown or completely unrecognisable . . . it is on an epidemic
scale. In some areas of the country family life in the old sense no longer
exists."
The judge condemns families with a mother and several absentee fathers.
He says: "Single parents often do a fantastic job, but a great many, perhaps
through no fault of their own, do not.
"A large number of families now consist of children being brought up by
mothers who have children by a number of different fathers, none of whom take
any part in their lives or support or upbringing.
"These are not isolated, oneoff cases. They are part of the stock-in-trade of
the family courts."
Judge Coleridge has spent the past eight years presiding over cases of
divorce, children in care and family break-up.
Last year he supervised courtroom attempts to negotiate a voluntary divorce
agreement between Sir Paul McCartney and Heather Mills.
He will say: "Almost all society's ills can be traced directly to the collapse
of family life. We all know it. Examine the background of almost every child
in the care system or the
"Ditto the drug addict. Ditto the binge drinker. Ditto those children who are
truanting or who cannot behave at school.
"Scratch the surface of these cases and you invariably find a miserable
family, overseen by a dysfunctional and fractured parental relationship - or
none at all."
Calling for action before it is too late, the judge will say family breakdown
is as serious as global warming.
"It is as big a threat to our society as terrorism, street crime or drugs, but
far more insidious. It will be more destructive than any economic decline
caused by international markets."
Mr Justice Coleridge says it is too late to help families just by bringing
back tax breaks for marriage.
He sets out a five-point plan including more effort to educate parents and
children on how to keep families together.
The judge also calls for higher spending on family courts, more court time for
family cases and modernisation of the laws on divorce and family break-up.
He will absolve any political party of sole blame for family collapse and
point to neglect before Labour's time in power.
But he accuses the government of "fiddling while Rome burns" and dismisses
"high-sounding declarations about taking children out of poverty" as
insufficient.
Latest figures show marriage rates at a historic low and divorce at a historic
high.
Children from single-parent families are far more likely to do badly at
school, suffer poor health, fall into crime, drug abuse, heavy drinking and
teenage pregnancy.
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